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What do you envision when you think of meekness? You probably see a mousy doormat, someone sheepishly acquiescing to the will of the stronger. When Jesus says, Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth, you might think that those wimps will hand it over without a whimper or word of objection to stronger, more ambitious people. The philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche called meekness craven baseness. Indeed, one of the Oxford English Dictionarys definitions is inclined to submit tamely to oppression or injury, easily imposed upon or cowed, timid. Meekness, then, is a weakness. Why would you ever want to be meek? The same goes for docility, often characterized as a near neighbor of meekness. We can get a feel for its usage these days from the Corpus of Contemporary American English, where one finds that a docile person is slow, controllable, obedient, submissive, compliant, passive, and under control. Or consider condescension. You likely envision someone self-important looking down her nose at a service worker, or some insufferable prig unwilling to come off his high horse to mingle with the peasants. Being condescending, far from being a virtue, is universally acknowledged as a vice. Meekness, docility, and condescension: three traits with no cultural capital today. And yet, our ancestors typically understood these traits to be virtues. How in the world could that be? As any philosopher will tell you, in a case of seeming disagreement, you need to settle the definitions of the words in play. How many arguments have been abruptly dissolved by someone saying, Oh, thats what you mean? When we check the meaning of these three terms, I think we come to see that theres been a switcheroo. As Ive found in my philosophical research and teaching, some of the virtues that were most celebrated in yesteryear but now go undersung are traits that can help us lead good lives, even now. Forgotten virtues Consider meeknessbut allow me to start with a little vignette. In 2018, mixed-martial-arts champion Matt Serra was having a family meal in a restaurant when a belligerent drunken man entered, threatening servers and patrons. Serra could have knocked him out cold. But instead, he calmly pinned him, waiting for security to arrive. A similar trait is on display when exasperated parents react with control, harried teachers dont rise to students provocations, and police de-escalate situations. In each case, they kept control of their emotions, especially their anger. One common feature of these stories is that the person wasnt powerless; rather, it was precisely because they understood how much power they had that they used restraint. Such a traitexcellence with respect to ones angerused to be called meekness. We hear an echo of this original meaning even today in horse training, where to meek a horse means training it to subjugate its great power to its master, not letting its passions take control. Likewise, meekness once meant not becoming weak, but subjugating power to reasonnot letting anger take control. In the Gospels, when Jesus calls himself meek, it is the same Greek word used for a meek horse: praus. A horse is not weaker on account of being meeked; no Greek warrior wanted a wimpy steed. The horse retains its strength, now safeguarded by self-control. This is quite a different notion of meekness than we find in our contemporary lexicon. Yet in its traditional sense, the word names a trait almost everyone deeply values. No one wants her best friend, child, teacher, coach, or deputy to be unable to control her anger. Such control is an important character trait for living a good life, but we no longer have a concept for it. What term do people use today for being disposed to pick battles prudently, not letting anger cloud ones judgment, not being easily baited into action theyll come to regretwithout being easily biddable or callous to real injustices? Self-control, a broad category that covers facing temptations, enduring difficulties and myriad things in between, is too broad a notion to do the work. Nor do we have a word for someone excellent at receiving instruction and insightsbut at the same time whos unafraid to think for herself, to disregard the advice of a snake-oil salesman. That used to be called docility. Condescension, the most surprising of the three, now suggests someone deigning to speak down from their lofty height. Yet it once described excellence at respecting people, regardless of their social status: easily connecting with those on a lower rung so they feel seen and valued, but without causing embarrassment or awkwardness. What term do we have now for inculcating such an important trait? Why words matter To be clear, Im not here from the Language Reclamation League. Im not necessarily advocating for a return to older languageand certainly not just because it is older. But without replacements for ethical concepts weve lost, were faced with a moral void, unable even to conceptualize the goodness that we want to see in ourselves and those we love. Maybe you think that not much is lost. Bridges fall when engineers cant distinguish varieties of physical strength; whats lost if people cant distinguish varieties of character strength? To my mind, there are at least three reasons why it is important to have some term or other for these traits. First, theres good psychological evidence that goals of approachI want to get healthy, I want to get financially stableare a stronger motivation for us than avoidance goalsI want to stop being sick, I want not to be poor. Approach goals typically yield more effort, more satisfaction, and more well-being. But they require naming the moral virtue you want to cultivate. Second, the positive traits named by these old virtues are what you really want. You dont merely want your loved ones to stop acting out of wrath. You want them to be able to restrain their power in the face of their anger. You are ignorant of your real goal if you dont have a concept for it. Third, consider the detriment caused by not having shared language for an ethical concept. The philosopher Miranda Fricker has written of the time before the term sexual harassment was coined in 1975. She provides multiple instances of women being wronged in the workplace but being unable to articulate that wrong to those in power, owing to a lack of a shared label for it. And not only that, but the lack of an adequate concept preventd the victims from fully understanding the wrong themselves. Having positive concepts for the traits we want to enable in ourselves and others is essential, then, to the moral life. The fact that weve let several go the way of blatherskite and bumfuzzled is telling. We still have terms for a bloviating windbag or being bewildered, so we dont need those archaic, though admittedly fun, words to express important truths. But when it comes to undersung virtues, we do need some way to highlight character traits that help form us into our best selveseven if the words of yesteryear no longer fit the bill. Timothy J. Pawl is a professor of philosophy at the University of St. Thomas. This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article.
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Generational conflict has become one of the most overused explanations for workplace tension, with plenty of stereotypical blame to go around: Baby Boomers resist change. Millennials lack loyalty. Gen Z is lazy. But after more than three decades working inside founder-led and multi-generational companiesfrom first-generation startups to fourth-generation enterprisesIve learned something counterintuitive: Generational conflict usually isnt about age. Its about clarity. Family-owned businesses offer a powerful lens on this issue. In the U.S., approximately 87% of businesses are family-owned, collectively employing millions of people and contributing significantly to the American GDP. These companies dont have the luxury of avoiding generational dynamics: succession, legacy, and long-term survival depend on navigating them well. When generational harmony fails, its rarely because one generation is unwilling to listen. Its because the organization lacks alignment on the fundamentals. When there isnt clarity, everyday decisions start to feel personal, strategy becomes something thats up for debate, change feels risky instead of necessary. And suddenly, even small choices carry more tension than they should. But when clarity is strong, something shifts. Different generations stop competing for control and start collaborating around a shared future. Four foundational elements consistently create generational harmony within workplace cultures. Heres how to implement them in your workplace. 1. Define Your Cultural Cornerstones Every resilient organization has cultural pillars that provide stability regardless of who is in charge. While perspectives may differ across age groups, most generations can agree on fundamentals: how employees should be treated, for example, or what doing the right thing means in practice. The problem is that in many companies, these standards are implied rather than explicit. Organizations with generational alignment make their cultural expectations clear. They document core values, reinforce them through hiring and performance standards, and use them as a decision filter. When values are visible and shared, disagreements become easier to navigate because everyone is working from the same foundation. Instead of arguments turning into generational standoffs, clear values give people a neutral reference point to come back to. 2. Align Around a Shared Purpose Many companies talk about legacy. Few define it in operational terms. A shared purpose answers three essential questions: Why do we exist beyond making money? Who do we serve? What are we trying to build for the future? In multi-generational organizations, purpose becomes the bridge between tradition and transformation. Older leaders see their experience honored and younger leaders see a future worth building. When purpose is clearly articulated, decisions feel connected rather than reactive. Communication becomes more consistent. Growth feels intentional instead of disruptive. Tradition stops acting as a barrier and starts serving as a foundation. Purpose reframes succession as stewardship rather than replacement. 3. Clarify Strategic Focus Many generational conflicts are actually unresolved strategic debates, such as: Which markets should we prioritize? Where should we invest? Which clients should we keep or let go? Without a defined strategy, every decision becomes a negotiation. One generation wants to preserve a long-standing client relationship. Another wants to cut losses and redirect resources. Both believe theyre acting in the companys best interest. High-performing organizations remove ambiguity. They define core clients, priority segments, profitability thresholds, and long-term positioning. Everyone understands where the company chooses to compete, and where it does not. Strategic clarity speeds decisions and reduces emotional friction. The debate shifts from my way versus yours to what aligns with our plan? 4. Ensure Operational Alignment Execution clarity is the final, and often overlooked, component. It answers questions like: What are we uniquely good at? What value do we consistently deliver? What outcomes can we prove? When messaging outpaces capability, generational blame often follows. Sales teams promise innovation operations cant deliver. Leaders advocate change without systems to support it. Employees grow cynical. Clients lose trust. The strongest organizations align their value proposition with operational reality. They connect what they promise to what they can consistently execute. They define measurable outcomes and build systems that validate performance. When expectations and capability are aligned, trust increases across generations. The Real Competitive Advantage Generational harmony isnt accidental. Its structural. When leaders and managers work together to clarify cultural standards, shared purpose, strategic priorities, and operational strengths, harmony becomes a byproduct of alignment. Decisions are based on mutual goals, not age. Experience and innovation complement rather than compete. In a workplace landscape defined by rapid change and shifting workforce demographics, clarity may be the most underrated competitive advantage of all. Because when everyone understands what matters most, generational differences stop being liabilitiesand start becoming strengths.
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Youve tried it all before. Waking up at 5:30 a.m. Journaling first thing in the morning. The exercises youre supposed to do before work. But do your morning habits stick? Are you still practicing them? We all want to win the morning, to be productive and intentional. The trouble with morning routines is that they dont work as they should if you dont fix your evening habits. People are obsessed with morning routines. But they forget that winning in the morning starts the night before. Every single choice you make after dinner is either setting you up for a great morning or sabotaging tomorrow before it begins. That late-night binge doesnt just keep you up. Its changing your entire sleep-wake cycle. That work email you answered at 10 p.m. stays on your mind and makes you think about all the many responses youre expecting. Doing work or dealing with issues right before bed keeps your brain thinking, figuring out options. And the worst part is that you pick it all up again when you wake up. Youre not just losing sleep. Youre training your brain to wake up in stress mode. The quality of your evening routine determines the success of your morning habits. Every time you miss out on a better evening ritual, your morning routine will suffer. Your willpower will be lower. The decision fatigue trap most people overlook By the end of your day, youve already made thousands of decisions: what to wear, what to eat, which emails to answer, which tasks to tackle first. Each decision demands mental energy. The more decisions you make in the morning, the less energy you have left for your tasks. The bigger problem? If you wait until morning to decide what youre going to do first, youre not starting your day right. Make your morning decisions at night instead. In just 10 to 15 minutes the night before, eliminate the decisions that stop you from taking action on your ideal morning routine. Write down a list of things you want to get right in the morning. Youll sleep better and feel more prepared when you wake up. By creating a good plan the night before, you set yourself up to be productive. Ive been using this pre-decision method to make my writing habit stick for years. And its working for me. I decide what to write the night before. I even write down the introduction. And then I pick up where I left off. You could start by prioritizing three tasks for the morning. By reducing the number of decisions you have to make, you free up time to actually make your morning habit, whatever you intend it to be, stick. I think of an evening routine as a systema series of small dominoes you set up for the results you want. Start with your sleep. Everything flows from this. Your brain begins winding down for sleep a few hours before bedtime as part of your natural sleep-wake cycle. Work with this, not against it. That means two hours before bed, start dimming lights. Put away work. No more emails. Your body needs time to transition into a good morning. You could even take it further30 minutes before bed is your clarity window. Journal if you want. Read a good book. The goal is to empty your brain so youre not lying awake thinking about all the things you need to remember. Now try to go to bed at the same time each night. An inconsistent sleep routine prevents your body from releasing hormones at the right time, which can throw off your sleep cycle. Give your brain the right evening routine to shut down. When you prepare the night before, youre not relying on willpower in the morning. Youre just following the plan you already made. Self-control is highest in the morning and steadily deteriorates over the course of the day. Use your evening brain, which is tired but still functional, to set up your morning brain for success. Establishing a Routine Takes Time Youre not going to nail this immediately. Youre going to forget something in the evening. Youll most likely stay up late watching just one more episode. If you break the chain, dont stress yourself about it. The goal is to make your defaults a little bit betterto remove some of the friction between you and the person you want to be in the morning. Start small. Pick one thing youre going to decide the night before. Just one. Maybe its writing down three things you need to do in the morning. Do that for a week. Then add another thing. Aim to add one or two changes at a time, slowly building a routine. What you want is sustainable change. Morning people are not more disciplined than you. They just figured out that mornings are won the night before. Do the boring work the night before. And go to bed on time. Tonight, before you go to bed, do three things. Decide what time youre waking up tomorrow. Be specific. Write down what youre doing first when you wake up. Prep whatever you need to make that happen. Make it visible. Thats the system and the setup to give your morning a chance to be successful. Everything else can come later. Your morning routine is failing because youre trying to build a routine without systems, and making decisions when you should be doing things. Fix the night habits, and the mornings will be better.
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